Appreciating imperfections..

Abit bored now after a day of lessons..haha decided to do the survey that xiling asked me to do on her blog..

1) whether I like boy boy or ger ger...
haha my answer would be I like both...woooooo...dun worry I din get influenced by movies like Brokeback mountain...haha I like both because both r impt...i like guys because of brotherhood..juz like my gang Westlife...although we juz meet up once in a blue moon nowadays..we r still v good frenz..guess some frenship does not need any maintenance after a certain level...and i like ger ger becos of the same reason as any other guy la...guys of cse like girls la..and i am no exception...hee

2) 8 criteria for my ideal partner...
Everyone has certain expectations for their partner..but well we have to resign to the fact that no one is perfect..and I guess even if u find some1 who is perfect, maybe your relationship wont be that fun compared to others...this is because this person would miss out on the process of understanding and adapting and appreciating his or her partner's imperfections...this process is important because a relationship is about understanding each other...if a person is all u expected..wont u lose the secrecy and exitement of getting to know the person better? haha maybe some of you may tink this is crap...but at least this is wat i personally tink...only a person who loves the person truly will be able to accept the imperfections of the person..

Criteria 1: haha the person loves me truly with all her heart...this would be the most important of all i tink because if the person does not love u, I tink there is no point in being with the person at all...

Criteria 2: I must be able to click well and communicate with the person...haha I would be spending alot of time with this person so must be able to tan de lai with this person...else the r/s would be so sian if you are not able to chat anything under the sun with this person...

Criteria 3: This criteria is really v subjective..and that is hopefully I have mo qi with this person..hee..i am happy to say that I have lots of mo qi with my dear..there is always just that special feeling with that special someone..somehow, you know when that person is happy or sad or simply noe how she tinks...maybe that's telepathy..and if you and your partner has that...congrats..it is really nice thing to have...

Criteria 4: The person shld be be able to accept my weak and bad points ... I admit i have my weak and bad points too..so hopefully my partner can accept these bad points of mine...

Criteria 5: The person shld be able to like my family...family is v impt to me..and hopefully everyone can nice to each other..else everyday my family complain to me..den my partner complain to me..haha headache leh...den in the end me die...

Criteria 6: I muz love the person! hahaha this is a super important reason..if i dun love the person..haha y would i ask her to be my partner rite...

Criteria 7: Hopefully the person will care for me...esp when I am like down or sian or sick etc..I dun need the person to specially come down see me or give me gifts or cook me stuff etc..i am really happy with a sms or phone call..it is the thought that counts..As long as noe the person care for me can liao..i am v easily contented...

Criteria 8: Actually 8 criteria is too much for me..honestly i dun have too much expectation for my partner...but if i am to name a 8th criteria...guess i will say that my partner shld be a person who I will always feel excited when i am goin to meet her..or be happy juz to see her sms or see a phone call from her...also dunnoe how to explain..it's juz that special feeling..

haha 8 criterias is really too much...as long as the person is the person i love and she loves me back..that's more than enough for me..maybe den you may sae..so ez to b contented? erm..actually yes...i am pretty ez to be contented...i am just a simple person...

8 ppl i would like to see them doin this on their blog...hmm...let me see..haha mark, kunhui, jiajia, chaoliang, hejia, corrine, gillian and jing hui...

ok...abit sian now...the posting time is wrong...it's 1142pm now...